Catholic Diocese of Portsmouth
The Diocese of Portsmouth covers Hampshire, the Isle of Wight, the Channel Isles and parts of Berkshire, Dorset and Oxfordshire
Marriage
& Family Life
Marriage Support
Marriage is at the heart of the Church's mission and we endeavour to support married couples in every way we can.
Celebrating Marriage
Starting in 2009 we have an annual celebration of marraige in which couples celebrating significant wedding anniversaries (25,40,50.60+) gather with the Bishop to celebrate their love and commitment over the years.
Celebrating Marriage 2009 - link
Relationships in Difficulty
At different stages in married life challenges can come along that put pressure on the relationship between husband and wife. In a healthy relationship these can be times of change and growth but if the relationship is facing difficulties, or the couple lack the skills to deal with the situation, these can cause conflict and even the breakdown of marriages.
In such difficulties the Church can offer support in many ways.
The vast majority of support for marriage and its day-to-day challenges comes from the clergy and members of parish communities around the diocese, usually very quietly and unnoticed. All of our clergy are trained and have experience in supporting marriage, and are always happy to provide support.
However, often it helps to seek support and guidance elsewhere and the largest organisation operating in the Diocese to support marriage in this way is Marriage Care. Marriage Care provide confidential counselling services for couples in several centres around the diocese. You do not need to be referred by anyone.
Further Information about Marriage Care
Domestic Abuse
Sometimes the trauma in the relationship comes from outside and sometimes from within. If the relationship is abusive in any way this runs counter to God's will for marriage as a manifestation of his love and mission in the world. Sometimes counselling can help both partners in such relationships. However, there is no expectation on behalf of the Church that someone remains in an abusive relationship. If there is any danger, seek advice from one of the organisations below, call the police if in imminent danger.
As a diocese we are currently developing guidelines for training of clergy and volunteers in parishes on this issue. If you have any questions about the Church and domestic abuse please contact the Safeguarding Office via the tab above.
0808 2000 247 Free phone 24 hr National Domestic Violence Helpline